Arrived back home days ago and dog-tired of cleaning the house, embellishing with Christmas decors, gardening and changing curtains. But it was all worthy, what’s worthless was the time I wasted for those people who’ve been asking me “why am I not still pregnant?” or “ am I gonna still get pregnant?” “ what treatments I’m having?” “aren’t you considering adoption?” blah blah blah. Man! I don’t even understand why I have to explain them.
The worst ones were those who somewhat “jokingly” (for them it’s really a joke) said “ Oh!, you’re not yet pregnant and your already in your mid 30s!” “Home is lonely without children” “ You don’t know how to make a baby, do you?” “ It’s harder to get pregnant, when you’re more than 35, you have to work on it fast”
Oh well, thank goodness that the devil in me who was ready to sew their mouth was halted by the angel in me.
But honestly, their statements brought me nightmares and found myself waking up in the middle of the night in tears.
Why can’t they just shut up their mouth?????!!!!!!
You are not alone...it is even worst on me...because i have no partner to call my husband but should i care to them? hhhhmmmm not me...i just savor the time and live to the fullest that is given me for the moment.:)There is always the perfect time for anything.:)
ReplyDeleteCheer up ging..:) God Bless!:)